You must have a pure sense of purpose to claim your soulmate. Hence choose your path by resetting and redefining your core values. Your looks and clothing along with your house, car and other material assets summons an “image” of who you are to the outside world. However, are you confident that your “image” is the only essence of you? Or should you be investing in your mind and soul as well?
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This includes you let go of your personal preferences, so you can reset your mindset. Because your Mind, Body & Soul is a priority not limited to an image that is forced onto you by the media and other trend setters such as fashionistas etc. With all these criteria checked you are ready to start Dating thus start Soul Sessions.
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A Sugar Babies nightmare conversation goes something like this. “Where did you get those Chanel shoes?” or better yet, “How did you pay for that Louis Vuiton handbag?” Normally, the sugar lifestyle sugar daddies and / or sugar mamas provide isn’t something you can afford on your own!
Since I am a sugar baby by choice, I routinely get questions that are always directed towards my lifestyle.
For a few sugar babies, it’s probably not difficult at all to share with their families where all the sugar is coming from…however if you’re in my situation, then sharing with friends and family is a challenge yet to overcome!
One thing is to include your friends, another is your family! That’s why I recommend breaking the ice with your friends first. Regardless of your choice, here are some few tips to consider:
You really only have to share your choice of lifestyle with those who may ask questions such as your close friends and family.
I bet if you are a female sugar baby and that it’s not everybody who knows when your cycle is? Nevertheless, I’m sure a couple of your friends do and perhaps your momma or grandmother! Furthermore, I recommend asking them to respect your decisions and privacy.
Tell The Truth Without Sharing All Your Secrets, but try not to lie.
Saying things like “Oh, my best friend just bought me this gold watch” or “Yeah, I stumbled upon these rocks at “King Of Bling” AKA Jacob The Jeweler” is a slippery slope. It only leads to your investigation.
Personally, I just tell it like it is. I date, meetup & hookup men and / or mature women at high-profile events with everything paid for. For instance, if I’m attending a VIP dinner with a Sugar Daddy. My outfit, shoes, accessories and so on are paid for and are mine to keep.
I tell them that some of the goods are from events and that the other are gifts from friendships and connections. If so!
That’s the easy part, but it can be complicated to explain the financial aspect. Sadly, some people closest to you will categorise you as an escort, but this is simply ignorance. They are basically assuming and we all know how the saying goes… “Assumption Is The Mother Of All F**** Ups”!
Underline that you have a long-term friendship and a bond resulting in sugarlove. Empathise on the mutually beneficial of the relationship terms. Such as you and your sugar parent are helping one another to achieve your goals, which is 100% true.
Sometimes people refuse to comprehend no matter how innocent it may be. They simply can’t relate to your lifestyle and that’s perfectly okay.You can’t win them all.
As in, if your friends and family aren’t 100% for it, then be mindful when flaunting it.
For me, I’m a full-time student and a sugardater. It’s not so much my parents that I’m worried about if I post a picture of my brand new iPhone and diamond necklace. I am more worried about the people who are quick to judge.
A few people know me as a sugarlover and most people as your average college student, thus I pride myself on looking like one. Occasionally there will be a snap of me flashing my sugar, but more often than not, it’s all about blending in.
Let humbleness be your strong point, while shaking off haters and other judgemental people. I flash just enough to keep people wondering, but nothing over the top.
You don’t want them to think you’re being exploited. Make it crystal clear that this is your journey and you decide by letting them know that you are in control of your actions. They just may be more at ease with your choice of lifestyle.
My friends and family were worried about my safety, which is completely understandable. That is why I take precaution:
As soon as my friends and family found out that these measures were taken, they felt a lot more comfortable about my sugardates.
Let me conclude by saying, any choice of lifestyle should not be enjoyed in silence. Why, because it’s just easier to have your friends and family on board. That’s why it’s best to be frank, since it helps to ease your loved ones into your lifestyle. Especially, when they are being questioned about you.